January 2, 2011
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Tried it and ended it
I got over my chaotic episode with Rickey, which was actually rather easy, because I didn’t classify our “thing” as a relationship but more of a fling. I decided I wanted something more stable in my life. Someone responsible, who works hard, fun to be around and made me feel safe.
Chase and I started dating but it didn’t last long. Around three weeks we dated and then we ended it. I guess I liked the idea of dating him more than the actual thing itself.
We come from identical backgrounds. We come from military families with annoying Pilipino mothers, similar religious and political upbringing. (Except on the last two he is a little bit apathetic on) We know the same kind of people and socially it worked well. Everyone actually knew both of us because we were from the same social circle.
Here is why it didn’t work.
He never wanted to do anything other than watch movies. He would either take me to the movies or we would watch a movie at his house. He was so exhausted from work all the time and so was I. Our schedules were conflicting and so were our interests. It was sad but I had a “talk” with him and then we called it quits. It was nice while it lasted but I think it’s better off this way. I much rather be friends.
[edited, this post was not posted at current time shown but has taken place around this time]
